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Driving to catch the bus for an away basketball game, a
varsity cheerleader anticipated a Saturday night like any other.
Her high school team would probably lose—they always did.
The
rain that fell earlier in the day was no concern for the senior
driving along a familiar road in her ’91 Toyota Corolla that she
affectionately named, “Golden Nugget.”
Listening to the radio, excited about seeing her friends, the girl
had no warning about the ensuing tragedy that would dramatically
change the 2005 that she had envisioned. And all that she knows
about the disaster that occurred is what she’s been told.
“The
first thing I remember is that I woke up and I was in my car, but I
didn’t know I had been in an accident—I don’t even remember turning
onto that road,” said Emily Willman, a young lady who has traveled a
long road of recovery to now be a student at Shawnee State
University.
Two and
a half hours from her hometown of Springfield, Ohio, Willman is
living on campus and taking a full course load—something that some
might suggest is remarkable, considering that she underwent six
surgeries on her feet and hours of plastic surgery as a result of a
horrific car accident.
The
rain that Willman gave no thought to froze on a stretch of road
forming an invisible sheet of black ice. She lost control and
slammed into an oncoming car.
“I
thought that I was having a dream.” Willman said, remembering the
day of the accident. “All I kept thinking was that I had to wake up
and get to the game.”
The
athletic director of her high school came upon the accident and used
his cell phone to call for help. The paramedics arrived and attended
to Willman, helping her to maintain consciousness.
“The
paramedic was holding my hand and saying, ‘Stay with us. Stay with
us,’ ” Willman recalled. “When I heard that I thought that I was
going to die, so I made my peace with God and thought about my
family.”
Willman
didn’t wake up again until she was in the hospital surrounded by her
family. In that first day, she underwent 11 hours of surgery on her
face to repair severe lacerations caused by slamming into the
steering wheel. She also had surgery on her feet and ankles which
were broken in the crash.
The
long recovery process included five days in the Intensive Care Unit,
and four more weeks of hospitalization.
“They
wired my jaw shut and sewed my eyes shut too,” Willman said.
Revealing her quick wit and fun humor, she adds, “Kinda freaky!”
“I
found out later that there was a rumor at school that they peeled my
face off—which they did during the reconstructive surgery—but the
kids thought that they didn’t put it back on!”
When
she was finally able to go back to school, Willman was confined to a
wheelchair, but she never lost her sense of humor.
“I
think that jokes and laughter were one of the most important
contributing factors to Emily’s recovery,” said Alli Voorhees, a
freshman majoring in Education who went to high school with Willman.
Despite
the hindrances that her injuries imposed, Willman was determined to
attend her senior prom and walk at graduation.
“I told
the doctors, ‘Just to let you know: I’m going to prom and I’m not
going in my wheelchair.’ ” Willman said. “I had crutches and two
boots, but no one could see the boots because of my dress.”
The day
after graduation, Willman had another surgery; this one a bone
fusion.
“I told
the doctors, ‘There’s nothing wrong with my hips! Those are my
money makers!’ ” Willman said, recalling when she found out they’d
have to take bone from her hip for the surgery on her ankle.
The
doctors, who expected that Willman would have to start college on
crutches, were surprised at how well she healed after that surgery.
“I
started physical therapy and now I can wear high heels but not
tennis shoes,” said Willman. “That’s because I walk on my tip
toes.”
She has
limited flexibility in her ankles and feet and walking is tiresome,
but she still planned on majoring in nursing.
“No one
said that I couldn’t do nursing and stand on my feet all day, but
they said that I couldn’t do it,” said Willman.
She has
switched her major to Office Administration Technology and still
hopes to work in a hospital.
“I was
thinking over winter break that since I can’t be a nurse and help
people, that it would be cool to set up a dog rescue,” Willman
said. “That is where we got our dog, Webster.”
Emily
believes she survived 2005 through pure determinism and inner
strength with a little splash of humor.
“Everyone tells me that I’ve grown up a lot from this happening and
I’m a lot more compassionate to people who are different or have
disabilities,” said Willman. “And I’m asking questions about what
my purpose is.” |